The only most important element in your relationship
Do you really feel you heard by your partner? Is your partner really there for you? Sincere listening to understanding and empathy is the key to a lasting, loving and satisfying relationship. If you only focus on one thing, let him listen; - but I'm talking about real and honest listening - not pretending to listen to many of us. You know what I mean: I took a look at your face saying that I listen; you may hint occasionally, but your mind is a million miles away. Or maybe you're the type of "listen to respond", where you listen enough to gather evidence to refute you - so you can use your partners' ideas as ammunition against them? Our relationships are built on the foundation of love and trust. We all want to know that our partner really cares about us, so when we express ourselves, we are important enough to them because they take the time and effort to understand what we want to share. This feeling that our partner "gets us...
